Dave's Not Here

I am going to walk the Camino this fall and am looking forward to the time, the experience, the memories, and the relationships that will be formed.  So I am thinking about how to prepare for the journey on the way to Santiago.  When I think of preparing, I think of three different ways to do that, spiritually, mentally and physically.    So you might ask how do I prepare mentally?  Isn’t that the same as spiritually?  

Well for me not really.  Preparing mentally is about opening the space of of the mind, and preparing spiritually is opening the heart to the “what” and the “why”.  So in getting the mind open I like to think about it as what what to take out first.  So here goes…

Don’t Overplan It – This goes without saying.  Basically, you need a plane flight over and a plane flight back, and some plan to handle re-entry to your day-to-day world.  The rest will be provided for you when get there.  Period.

Don’t Have Any Expectations – There are so many things we can think we are going to get out of this, but the reality is that there is no way to remotely know what will happen.  A beginners mind is in order to stay in a mental space of wonder and curiosity.

Don’t Overwhelm Yourself with Too Much Information – We all have a lot of time to read book after book, to look at endless websites, to talk on forums til the cows come home.  The reality of it is that you only need to do as much as is comfortable and be prepared to throw it all out when you take your first step on this massively cool journey.

Don’t Over Think It – So many ways to think about this trip.  The basics are a decent backpack, a comfortable pair of shoes, your toothbrush, and one extra set of clothes.  You literally need that little.  The Camino will provide the rest.

Don’t Pack for the Worst Case Scenario – As a matter of fact, pack for the least case scenario.  I am not kidding that you only need your toothbrush and one extra set of clothes.  We tend to pack our fears so if you are taking it, ask yourself what are you afraid of, and why can’t I get it along the way if I need it.

Don’t Go Overboard Training For It – There are literally hundreds of people that don’t do a darn thing to prepare for the Camino every year that complete the hike stronger than they have ever been.  There are some prudent things we can do help reduce risk of injury that I will cover in my next post, but for now, know it is way easier than you think.

Don’t Plan on Losing Weight While On It – Just in case you are thinking of this one, I wanted to include it.  Do you remember the Dutch character in the movie The Way??  It didn’t work for him and it most likely will not work for you.

Don’t Plan on Finding Your Soulmate On It – This is another one I have seen some misconceptions on.  There is no quicker way to limit your experiences on the Camino than hooking up with a single individual whether it be friend or romantic. Meet as many people as you can and be willing to say goodbye knowing you probably will never see them again.  The tighter you hold on to them, the harder it will be post Camino to let go of them.

I want to thank all of the pilgrims on the Facebook page The American Pilgrims on the Camino for the help they gave me in coming up with this list.  Without generous people like that, I would not be wanting to go back to experience this wonder again.

This walk will do things for you that you cannot imagine so sit back, let the universe take the reins and get ready for the walk of your life!